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Top 5 Questions to Ask
When Considering Downsizing

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For many Australians, downsizing is about much more than moving to a smaller home. It’s about creating a lifestyle that is easier to manage, unlocking money to enjoy retirement and finding a place that will meet your needs as you age.
Done well, downsizing can improve your financial security and your quality of life. Done poorly, it can leave you with less money than expected, ongoing costs you hadn’t budgeted for or a home that no longer suits your needs.
Before you sign a contract or put your home on the market, ask yourself these five important questions.
1. How much money will I really have left over?
One of the biggest motivations for downsizing is to free up equity from the family home. Many people simply compare the sale price of their current home with the purchase price of their next one, but it is not that simple.
You need to work out what will it cost you to sell, move and buy.
Start by estimating the selling costs of your current home, including agent’s commission, advertising, conveyancing and any repairs, renovations or styling needed before sale.
Then consider your moving costs. Removalists, utility connections, storage, cleaning and replacing furniture can quickly add up.
Finally, don’t forget the buying costs. Depending on where you’re moving, these could include stamp duty, legal fees, registration costs, renovation expenses and any upfront fees associated with your new home.
Once you have these numbers you can take the net amount you will receive for your home, deduct the moving and buying expenses and have greater certainty about what you will have in your hand. That figure becomes the foundation for other financial decision you’ll make in retirement.
2. What will my new home really cost?
The purchase price of your new home is only part of the story.
Whether you’re buying into a retirement community, a granny flat or another form of accommodation, it’s important to understand the costs across the entire journey.
I encourage people to break the costs into three buckets:
Ingoing – what you pay to move in.
Ongoing – what you’ll pay while you live there, such as strata fees, service charges or site fees.
Outgoing – how much you get back, and how soon, after you leave. This can include exit fees, management fees, renovation costs and selling expenses. If your new home is in a retirement village then a guaranteed buyback will often apply. The minimum terms and conditions are set by state based legislation, however you can find buybacks offered on a shorter timeframe, for example the legislation may set a timeframe of 12 months but the operator will give you a buyback after six months.
Understanding all three is essential because the cheapest home to buy isn’t always the most affordable place to live. Likewise, a home with a higher purchase price may actually leave you financially better off over the long term if it has lower ongoing costs or a more favourable exit arrangement.
Looking at the complete picture allows you to compare different options rather than focusing on a single price.
3. What will happen to my pension, rent assistance and cash flow?
Downsizing can significantly change your financial position, particularly if you’ve unlocked a large amount of equity.
While having more money invested may increase your income, it can also affect your Age Pension under both the income and assets tests.
For some people, the reduction in pension is more than offset by the additional investment income they’ve generated. For others, the impact can be greater than expected.
If you’re moving into a retirement community or another eligible housing option, it’s also worth checking whether you may qualify for Commonwealth Rent Assistance. Depending on your contract and the type of ongoing payments you make, Rent Assistance can make a meaningful difference to your retirement income.
A successful downsizing decision isn’t just about increasing your wealth on paper—it’s about making sure you have enough money coming in every month to live comfortably.
4. What happens if I need care?
Many people tell me they’re looking for their “forever home”. They don’t want to move again if they can avoid it.
If that’s your goal, this may be the most important question of all.
Today’s retirement communities are increasingly designed to support ageing in place. Homes are often built with accessibility in mind, including level access, wider doorways and bathrooms that can be adapted as your needs change. Some communities also offer emergency call bells, visiting health professionals or even carers on site, making it easier to remain independent for longer.
If you’re considering a granny flat arrangement, many are purpose built for ageing in place but it still pays to think about how practical it will be if your mobility changes or you require additional support at home.
Of course, there may come a time when residential aged care becomes necessary.
If that happens, you’ll want to know how much money you’ll receive back from your current home and how quickly those funds will become available to help pay a Refundable Accommodation Deposit (RAD) or meet other aged care costs. Exit arrangements vary considerably. With granny flat arrangements, the exit fee is typically 100%, meaning there is generally no refund when the arrangement ends. In retirement communities, exit fees can range anywhere from 0% to 100%, although around 30% is common. It’s equally important to understand how long it could take to receive your money back. While most people are not concerned about what happens when they leave knowing these rules before you move in can make a significant difference if your circumstances change unexpectedly.
5. Is this somewhere I’ll genuinely enjoy living?
Finally—and perhaps most importantly—ask yourself whether this feels like home.
People often spend months comparing floorplans, contracts and locations, but very little time thinking about the community they’ll be joining. No one has ever moved into a retirement community where they felt like a square peg in a round hole and later said it was the best decision they ever made. The social side of retirement living matters. Ask for a copy of the activities calendar, attend an open day, join in the happy hour, sit in the café, talk to the people who live there and spend time experiencing what everyday life is actually like.
This is valuable research, and it’s something you can do before spending hundreds of thousands of dollars. The right downsizing decision isn’t just about buying a home, it’s about finding a place where you’ll feel comfortable, connected and supported for years to come.
Downsizing is one of the biggest financial and lifestyle decisions you’ll ever make. By asking the right questions before you move, you’ll give yourself the best chance of finding a home that not only works financially but also feels like the right place to live your next chapter.



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